goosegirl
09-08-05, 06:13 PM
Hi all,
We have had bad MIL'S what about bad sisters.
One more visit from my older sister, and I think I will be refusing any contact from her in the future. What brought me to this stage? :badmood:
Here are a few examples.
My next door neighbour used to talk with us, every time we passed on our way out of our houses we would say hello etc. We baby sat when the kids were young.
My sister and ex used to go out with them on a evening. Then her ex slept around, and our neighbours husband had a affair. :(
When ever my sister was supposed to visit us, she would see us about 5 minutes then disappear next door for a couple of hours. I felt a bit put out but thought they had simaler problems so left them to it. :banghead:
Any way one day my sister said that my neighbours daughter had shouted to her mum, that nutty women is here to see you, meaning her. :angry:
Shortly after next doors stopped talking to us, I assumed they had just got a different lifestyle and friends. So we just stopped caring and picked other people to talk to. :(
We only mentioned what my sister said during a row about noise they made. They accused us of trying to stir it. :angry:
Sorry if this is long. :blush:
When my sister and I lived here our mum died 6 months ago. My sister wanted her fella to move in, and me to move out. Being disabled and on benifit I felt unable to cope or afford a place of my own at that time.
After her fella breaking a plate over my head, because I asked him to talk things out with me, because we were not getting any where us both sulking in corners.
I went and phoned the police at a neighbours, then they let him stay until my sister moved else were with him.
My sister is the me, me, me, sort of person, always has being. She will talk none stop about her high lights of the day. But if I say any thing I have to repeat it.
Second example.
Her last visit with daughter, she moaned because our neighbour asked her to move so he could get out. Complained about him while we were sat on the patio drinking tea. Tried to get us to moan about our neighbours, while they were coming in and out with their windows open.
Told us that telling her our shop name and location, would make them do stuff to our store as well. Yet dare to mention any of her stuff, and its shut up I dont want people hearing my business they can hear etc.
This time we would change the subject, because we were on the patio again. So she said that the new bag of dry chipmunk food, that we gave her for her rabbit. She actually said that it was full of fleas, and she said it loudly so next door could hear it. I said it was utter rubbish. :rant:
I have never being the b*tchy type, not to my family or friends only to people I hate. So I feel like having no contact any more. Our neice will be really upset but what can we do. You are suppossed to hang around with people that make you feel good.
GG.
We have had bad MIL'S what about bad sisters.
One more visit from my older sister, and I think I will be refusing any contact from her in the future. What brought me to this stage? :badmood:
Here are a few examples.
My next door neighbour used to talk with us, every time we passed on our way out of our houses we would say hello etc. We baby sat when the kids were young.
My sister and ex used to go out with them on a evening. Then her ex slept around, and our neighbours husband had a affair. :(
When ever my sister was supposed to visit us, she would see us about 5 minutes then disappear next door for a couple of hours. I felt a bit put out but thought they had simaler problems so left them to it. :banghead:
Any way one day my sister said that my neighbours daughter had shouted to her mum, that nutty women is here to see you, meaning her. :angry:
Shortly after next doors stopped talking to us, I assumed they had just got a different lifestyle and friends. So we just stopped caring and picked other people to talk to. :(
We only mentioned what my sister said during a row about noise they made. They accused us of trying to stir it. :angry:
Sorry if this is long. :blush:
When my sister and I lived here our mum died 6 months ago. My sister wanted her fella to move in, and me to move out. Being disabled and on benifit I felt unable to cope or afford a place of my own at that time.
After her fella breaking a plate over my head, because I asked him to talk things out with me, because we were not getting any where us both sulking in corners.
I went and phoned the police at a neighbours, then they let him stay until my sister moved else were with him.
My sister is the me, me, me, sort of person, always has being. She will talk none stop about her high lights of the day. But if I say any thing I have to repeat it.
Second example.
Her last visit with daughter, she moaned because our neighbour asked her to move so he could get out. Complained about him while we were sat on the patio drinking tea. Tried to get us to moan about our neighbours, while they were coming in and out with their windows open.
Told us that telling her our shop name and location, would make them do stuff to our store as well. Yet dare to mention any of her stuff, and its shut up I dont want people hearing my business they can hear etc.
This time we would change the subject, because we were on the patio again. So she said that the new bag of dry chipmunk food, that we gave her for her rabbit. She actually said that it was full of fleas, and she said it loudly so next door could hear it. I said it was utter rubbish. :rant:
I have never being the b*tchy type, not to my family or friends only to people I hate. So I feel like having no contact any more. Our neice will be really upset but what can we do. You are suppossed to hang around with people that make you feel good.
GG.